Too often, we run out and buy the latest item that ends up sitting in our closet (or drawer) for months. Or worse, we wear the same black pants for the fourth day in a row. Before spending time and money on another black sweater, shop in your own closet. You might be surprised what you find! Who knows, what has gone "out" might now be in fashion again. I recently starting reusing a leather purse that I've had for four years. I purchased it in Florida, and for a time it was too big. But this summer I discovered it's perfect for hauling my camera or snacks!

Don't forget to check your jewelry box for finds. Why haven't you worn that special necklace that has been passed down in your family? Or perhaps it's a bracelet or ring you received as a gift. Don't wait for a "special" occasion- every day is special!

Don't assume that you can't pair some of the items you already own because it doesn't seem "safe." Browsing sites like Pinterest.com or Instyle.com can provide tons of inspiration for wardrobe updates. Instyle.com even has a game that you can play where you choose the finishing outfit touch and score points. Not only is it fun, it can really open up eyes to mixing prints and choosing the best accessory to complete a look. Another tip is to find a celebrity whose style you admire and work to emulate that person. Obviously you don't have to go out and buy designer clothes, but use this person's style as a frame of reference. For example, you could be in the fitting room at TJ Maxx trying on a dress. Before you buy it (after checking out all your angles, of course), ask yourself, "Would Gwyneth wear this?" or whoever your icon is. If the answer is a resounding no, rethink the purchase.

Perhaps you love bright colored shoes, or you wear scarves everyday. Don't be afraid to find your "thing" and rock it! That being said, don't get stuck in a rut, either. My "thing" is big cocktail rings, beaded necklaces, scarves, and blazers (not all at once, of course). When I go thrifting, I always look for these items, because I know I will wear them. I don't necessarily spend a lot of money on these items, nor do I care if they are in "fashion" because I love them. No one is really wearing beaded necklaces right now (statement necklaces are in), but I don't care, because it's my "thing!" 

We've all had that moment: you're at the grocery store, hair unwashed, clothes wrinkled (do sweatpants wrinkle?) when you run into "THAT PERSON." Perhaps it's a former college buddy whose style is impeccable. Perhaps it's your pastor. Perhaps it's even (GASP) an old flame. Either way, as you lock eyes with that person, you immediately feel your cheeks start to redden as you realize you look like you jogged all the way to the store with the flu. Yea, it's that bad. And while we all have those moments (and sometimes don't have the energy to care- HELLO, sick children and my dog is at home with diarrhea), you can avoid them from happening frequently. Have a "go-to" errand outfit- jeans, flats, cami and blazer- that looks pulled together. Or for summer, throw on a summer dress, top it off with a cardigan, and cute sandals. No one has to know that underneath you forgot deodorant or whatever the case may be. Just be sure that should you run into Channing Tatum on the diaper aisle, you can smile and know you look your fab self!